Reality check: Money actually matters in dating and love.
Happy Valentine’s Day! Kumusta ang buhay pag-ibig mo?
In any serious relationship, money matters are crucial. While discussing finances as an adult couple may not be as romantic as candlelit dinners or sunset strolls, it’s a significant aspect of building a strong and lasting relationship, that may one day lead to a beautiful marriage.
Sa panahon ngayon, ‘di na lang pagmamahal ang sukatan in building a future together with your SO. Alongside laying the groundwork for trust, good communication, and shared values, handling finances together also strengthens your partnership.
Here’s why it’s time to consider having the ‘money talk’ as part of your daily conversations:
Open communication
Being transparent about your finances builds trust. So feel free to discuss financial goals, concerns, and responsibilities with your partner — teamwork makes the dream work!
Shared values
Money habits reflect personal values. Talking about financial goals helps couples align their values and make joint decisions for the future. Whether that’s discovering your credit scores, credit, and savings habits, determining your partner’s financial standing uncovers potential areas for improvement.
Conflict resolution
Alam mo ba na maraming relasyon ang nasisira ng dahil sa pera? So don’t let it get in the way of yours if you want to be with your SO forever. Couples who confidently solve financial issues strengthen their bond.
Financial security
Planning for the future brings peace of mind. From emergency funds to long-term goals, shared financial planning fosters stability.
Empowerment and independence
Isn’t this what relationships are all about? Supporting each other’s growth (financially and overall) strengthens your partnership!
In essence, understanding each other’s attitudes and habits towards money proves to be another test of your compatibility, especially if you’re planning to be together for life.
Openly discussing finances and understanding how each other handles debt build a solid foundation to get through financial challenges and achieve your dreams hand in hand.
And that’s what love is — it’s a conscious decision made by two people who want to make life work no matter what 😌